Friday, December 11, 2009

Monday Night in Phnom Penh

Flight to Cambodia was delayed over an hour. The uncle next to me in the plane, a businessman was pissed about being late for his meeting, he works closely with embassies, in the business of getting foreign workers into Malaysia...

The flight to Cambodia was entirely different, the ex-Cambodian maid who sat next to this Chinese Uncle could speak rather good English and Mandarin, she's going back for good after 5 years of working in Msia. Well dressed, modernly, and she was yakking over handsfree right till take off and would have continued if her battery hadn't died!

Bestfriend greeted me at the airport with a huge big hug, all set with a tut-tut driver and his charriot and off we went into the sunset

=Pampered eh? Hahahahah.

She said she's not there to pamper me in crazy Phnom Penh

"But you're doing such a good job!" i protested =P Hahahha

She already checked into a room at Okay Guesthouse

It's featured in The Lonely Planet, the best tour guide ever! Traveller's Bible/Quoran, whatever, u get what i mean.

Simple room. Just the basics plus a TV. Watched some Jurassic Park on StarMovies


USD 10 (RM34) per night! So its 5-5 each! I came back to KL and had CoffeeBean during group study, one night in Cambodia is almost the same price a large Mocha Ice Blended!


Just cut down on designer coffee and u can travel!

Its safe Xiao Gwei, u dont need 3 star hotels!


See, even got aircond. Which we didnt turn on to save $$

The powerful fan did a fantastic job! Oh and its cold shower but happy to have our own toilet

Off to Godiana hotel to meet this NGO guy, M who works in Oxfam


Bestfriend took me a picture in the lobby. There was a wireless modem for the guest to use internet service and there were quite a few travellers there with their laptops.

3 of us went for dinner a short walk away from the hotel.

Nice ambience, full house, we had to wait a minute for a proper dinner table (and not a coffee table).

Oh! Its one of those places that was full of adventurous whites! In my previous trip to Cambodia in 2006, on a tour with family, they always brught us for Chinese meals in Chinese Restaurants, which was obviously full of Chinese from all over the world! Cambodian food is good!

I'll eat frogs again if i make a third visit!

Recommended i order Fish Amok and i obeyed!

No regrets! =) I taste lemon grass or serai in it, i love it! Bestfriend said she's had better... but this was the best presented Fish Amok she's seen. USD 5 (RM17) with rice.

Picture above taken by a normal camera and without tripod! Tell me i am good! =P Hahaha

Blur pic of after the meal. So satisfying! That stupid coconut is huge and endless, it can never finish! So much water in there!

Not like tiny Thai ones... also different meat from Malaysians.

Hahah, that last sentence sounds wrong

Headed to FCC, this pub/restaurant bestfriend frequents. Sat on the verrandah on the 3rd floor, overlooking part of the Ton Le Sap river

Windy up there, just chillin out

The Oxfam guy and i


He was explaining what Oxfam is about, they do long term sanitation projects in Cambodian kampongs

Also do emergency projects and he had an emergency meeting the next day so he couldn't bring bestfriend and i go see how those long term projects work. Both she and i were dissapointed but didnt show it

Angkor beer, Cambodia's own fresh brew, really light stuff but being allergic, i stay cautious and didnt drink more than a few sips from her jug

We used his jug of beer to camwhore and used him as a cameraman! HAHAHAH

Friday, December 04, 2009

Best Flight Ever!

Even though the crew was slightly inefficient.

Only started loading the baggage after everyone has boarded.

We were only allowed to get our boarding pass a little less than an hour before scheduled take off time.

Sorry i'm not as glamarous as Ringo of Cheeserland.com. See in the background, those boxes? The owners look Malay, and the Mak Cik responded well when i asked her to take me a picture. They dress like Malays but they hold a Cambodian passport. I am so confused as to their background...

When the queue to check in started moving, this Black guy, W started talking to me. He said he's a student in Malaysia. Winifred College in Jalan Tun HS Lee. Travelling alone. I was ok with chit chat cuz i wanted to be like Nicolekiss.net, come to think of it, she usually mixes with fairer races, i observe from her pictures with strangers.

At first it was okay, small talk. He said he didnt have any friends cuz there are no others from his country in his college and that his classmates cant really speak English, plus race is always an inevitable issue. I understand how it feels like to be an international student, when i was in Australia i did not make any white Australian friends (Will blog about it one day maybe).

So i was ok when he wanted to exchanged numbers. I sincerely wanted to bring him around KL (since he hasn't seen much of KL) after my exam this Tues.

That's before he started to scare me! First he said he's from India, come on, i know how Indians look like, he's the African kind of black!! Started saying more things to freak me out. Big time, i was shit scared. Wanted to sit with me on the plane, wanted to get to know me better, asked if i was married!

And then asked me to call him that night itself! Said he really wanted to hear my voice! Said he loved me!

Officially afraid! I stared at the counter, please let it be my turn! Almost there.

My turn, did the shit and then deliberately did not wait for him, practically ran to the toilet. Wanted to get away quick! Hurridly wanted to get to the boarding area. Thats the officials told me i needed to pay airport tax first and pointed me to the counter! USD25.

I joined the queue, and suddenly the guy was behind me!!!! He spoke to me! Play it cool, tried not to show my fear. He didnt know about the airport tax, i bet u don't know too, do u? He said he doesnt have anymore cash and wanted to borrow USD20 from me! I was super uncomfortable with that. He said he'd return within 3 days, i do not want to see him on Saturday, i need to study damn it!

I lied, i said i dont have any more cash! I am a bad liar, dont know if he saw right through me, i looked away, and thankfully he left me alone, presumably to find an ATM. Phew!

My heart was beating so fast, i panicked whenever i saw a black guy in a white polo tee from afar. Got on the plane, i had window seat. A Malay uncle had the isle seat. I got worried when i saw the empty seat in between Pak Cik and i!

Thank God, this Khmer lady came to sit next to me! She smiled, i smiled back. SO RELIEFED. She's young, wearing a pink tee that says "Human Power", there was a whole group of others like her, wearing the same tee, with the same haircut.


I took a picture of my international roaming before i turned off my phone, she was curious with technology and kept on peering over to see my camera whenever i took a photo. I took a photo with her.

Her English was limited. She could only say and understand a few things. She said my photographs were beautiful =)


I looked out the window as we took off, careful not to block her view. I didnt look at her until i heard her making some uneasy noises. The take off was bumpy. Was surprised to see her holding on to both armrests, she was holding her breath, didnt move, she closed her eyes, and tears streamed down her face.

Pak Cik and i was worried, he was looking at her too. I gave her a tissue paper. I couldnt figure out if she was scared of the flight or that she realized she wasnt going to see her family in a long time. I asked her if she was alright, she said she was okay. By then the plane was cruising smoothly in the air, enroute Kuala Lumpur.

The flight stewardess who was sporting a cool short haircut started giving out cards for non-Malaysians. Pak Cik got her one. I guessed she did not have a pen, i took out mine for her. She took it and looked at the card, she couldnt fill it up, it was all in English! Pak Cik asked for her passport and did it for her!

Hahahah, so nice of him yeah? He asked her to sign the form but she didnt know what he meant. I took her passport and pointed at her signature. She got the message.

Tho Channa, the 21 yr old Khmer girl, then asked him to help her friends fill out their cards! There were so many of them, all of them couldnt read/write English, so i had to help too! They had a sticker on their passport, it says they are entering Malaysia to be household maids.

We were above the clouds for some time now

I took a few more shots and then offered her my window seat which she gladly accepted. My salary isnt fabulous, but i can afford to fly Airasia again, this will be her only flight for some time. The gratitude that showed on her face was priceless

Pak Cik and i started chatting. I guess it was odd for a young Asian gal like myself to travel alone. He was curious to know. The conversation evolved and we were talking about NGOs, cuz thats what my bestfriend is doing. Turns out he's part of an NGO too!

An NGO whose target is poor Muslims, they went to Cambodia for Hari Raya Haji, bought 80 cows for slaughter, each at USD300 (RM1,020 at somewhat current forex rate). In Malaysia, whole live cows costs RM2000 Pak Cik told me. He and a few others went from Muslim Kompong (thats Cambodian spelling for kampung, i saw fr Channa's passport)...

So Pak Cik's NGO, Badan Amal Diniah Malaysia goes from Kompong to Kompong to slaughter and distribute a few cows to the community. So cool! I think my eyes totally lighted up, i was so happy!

"I didnt know there were such Malaysian NGOs" i exclaimed out loud! I asked if i could be part of it, they go to other South East Asian countries too, i was so enthusiactic and estatic!

When i asked Pak Cik if they only help Muslim poverty, he said their main target was Muslims but if there are say, Buddhists in the community, they do not discriminate and would still distribute the meat to the non-Muslims too. Made me even happier!

I took his contact details and gave him my Big 4 name card.

The stewardesses came by our isle to sell food. I ordered water and Pak Cik said he'd pay for me! Even offered Channa cholocate! She doesnt know how to order, so i picked M&Ms, something that she can share with her friends.

Channa didnt know what it was, i opened it for her, and even had to eat one to demonstrate that it's food! She tried one and as she chewed cautiously at first, i watched her eyes opened wide and a smile flashed across her face! Its like Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, i bet, even though i never read the book by Roald Dahl

I took the vomit bag from the seat in front of me and used it as paper to teach her how to write her name.

I had to hold her hand at first. But she caught on really fast. I think she's really smart. Yellow M&Ms on her table.

I needed to pee and asked if she wanted to use the toilet too. She didnt know there was a toilet in the plane and was happily asking the others if they wanted to go too! Haha

A Chinese auntie queuing up at the toilet looked at me and Channa with question marks all over her face. She asked "U took her home?" I was like, "Nonono, agency." I should have said more but i was speechless. U cant simply take people home, can u?

The landing announcement came on while i was in the loo. When i came out, there were many Khmer girls waiting to use the toilet! Hahah. Channa and i headed back to our seats.

She went "WOW" at the lights of Putra Jaya/Cyber Jaya/Sepang. My country has never looked so beautiful before this, this time i was seeing it through her eyes

Channa was afraid of landing too, same reaction as take off but less dramatic. She leaned on my arm like as if she was my little sister, but this time she was silent.

It was my turn, i wanted to cry, i looked up and held back tears, i was praying hard that the family she is going to work for will be patient and will treat her well. I know they need a maid, not looking to do charity but please please give her a good home!

I saw Channa and said our final goodbye, she smiled and waved, i like her spirits, wish her well.

Its a ritual for me to take a picture of whatever AirAsia plane i take. I saw a black guy, wearing a polo tee descend those stairs, but i didnt want to run away, i MUST take a picture of my plane!

Tried taking self shots of me and the plane, Pak Cik saw and helped me! =D

I stuck to Pak Cik, his friend and another Malay couple and son with them, so W, the scary guy would see that i am with company! Hahah.

Thankfully W didnt approach me again, probably pissed that i didnt lend him the USD 20? I feel a little bad... would u lend a stranger USD 20?

Monday, November 30, 2009

Next 4 Days

I once read "Regret the things u did and not the things u didnt do"

But for everything u do do, there are things that u didnt do. So how?

Just do it la

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Snatchthievophobic

Scarred since the day i became a victim to snatch thieves

I've had a deep fear of the sound of motorbikes

And i am extremely cautious

Yes, that's my laptop backpack wearing a seatbelt.

The handbag goes in between the two front seats.

AND the seatbelt goes into the strap...

Quite often, i'd study in this 24 hour cafe near my house till late, really late.

The Malaysian Police Force decided to put a routine police block every single night right in front of the entrance to my street. No, not because i asked them to, of course not

Sometimes they dont bother about me, sometimes they ask for my license.

The other night they wanted to see my license. With my handbag there in the middle of my seat, i unbuckled the seatbelt. And the policemen thought i "baru pasang" my seltbelt!! (He thought i wasn't wearing my seatbelt!) He thought i broke the law! My god, i was damn scared, i had to explain my situation!

Me, me, ME?!?!?! I always wear my seatbelt okayyy? I am THE ONE reminding others all the time!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Pulau Ketam

A boat ride away from Port Klang...

A pretty picture of the little fishing village

And the ugly side of the same island


Pulau Ketam means Crab Island


The desirable species (as in a good to eat)...

And the undesirable

Rodents

The window

of the boat to get to the island

and the toilet bowl,

i mean hole

Not like that there aren't any normal toilets

Just that are used for an alternate function! Hahah

Mode of transport

Bicycles

We rented some just for fun

The blogger


with E

The blogger's parents

My sis, my bro and his then gf went on the trip too...

The busy part of the island

by nightfall

Uncle selling meat

He posed for my mom, who takes good pix =)

What kids do on the island

They were looking for/at this creature

Beats me, what the hell it is...

That sums up our two days one night family trip


My father likes this sort of simple holidays. We went to a Kelong too in 2008

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Study Leave round 3.2

Monday was loads of fun! No Monday blues cuz i took unpaid leave! =) The other ICAA girls and i went for lunch and karaoke! Oh so painful on the pocket but it was a blast!

I didnt even pick a song, but i know 4 out 5 songs Isya picked. Pictures here!

Tuesday i finally got down to studying a lil. Then bought mom a cake, it was her birthday. Pictures here!

Am gonna go off to a friend's house to hit the books now although i am so tired